Lately in my
class I have been noticing and observing how student’s behavior changes greatly
depending on whether they are on time or late to school. Each morning I like to greet my students individually
with either a high-five, hand shake, or some type of greeting. From that first interaction in the morning I
get a great insight into whether the student is having a good or bad day so far
and how their attitude will be during the day.
I especially notice that when students come in late, it really throws
off their attitude for the whole day.
When the students come into our
classroom, the first thing they do every
single morning is go to their seats and take their homework folders
out. It is amazing to me that students
who come in even just five minutes late totally forget to do this. As an adult, I would think that no matter how
late or early you come into the classroom, that you always do the first things
first. However, I am noticing that if
students arrive late it’s as if they forget about all our morning routines and
just put their stuff wherever they feel like it.
I have one 2nd grade
boy in particular who comes to school late pretty much every day of the
week. He has been with my MT for a year
already as a 1st grader and is well aware of the classroom norms and
procedures yet he insists on putting his backpack and coat wherever he
wants. I find I completely infuriating
that he can’t seem to follow the rules or even try to remember but I also try to
keep in mind that it is not his fault he is late every day. His mother admits that she has no urgency in
the morning to get him to school on time, so of course he is going to be off
once he arrives.
The same happens later in the day when the students return. Every day they go to a special, lunch, and
then recess before coming back for the afternoon. When I go outside to pick them up from recess
they almost always ask, “are we lining up in line order?”. The answer is yes. Every single time we line up to go somewhere
we line up in their line order so it is so puzzling to me that they think
recess is an exception, especially since they do it every day. It seems that whenever they walk away from
the normal classroom setting they forget what is expected of them until they
are reminded.
My advice would be 1) to remind students of the justifications for the rules and routines (why do they make the class safer, more efficient, etc.?), and 2) to talk to some of these students (for example, the one you mention) individually and to try to work out a personal system that can help them self-regulate in meeting the expectations that you have for them.
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